This is a big no-no, says House. When you find someone you truly belong with, you feel balanced because you think things are in the emotional order they are supposed to be in. SHARE Intense romantic relationships often include powerful arguments, followed by powerful make-up sex. In a healthy relationship, two people can come together after a disagreement and share physical intimacy because they feel close. Having an acute awareness of her reflexes and responses will show her that you are putting her first. One way to come back together after a particularly difficult or emotional fight is to meet in the bedroom.