Of the meeting, Skaar told People in , 'Michael approached me after some well calculated "stalking," as I like to call it. Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner announced on Tuesday that they were divorcing after 10 years of marriage , but before they got together, they both had several high-profile relationships. People get divorced, you know? Alias star Michael Vartan's wife of three years Lauren Skaar files for divorce. It is worth noting that Vartan dated Garner from to before Affleck came into the picture, and CDL called the co-stars' connection as "palpable. But now, it seems that the Alias star is turning to Michael Vartan for comfort after the separation, according to KDrama Stars. Lo admitted that her failed relationship with Affleck was her "first real heartbreak.